To my 15-year-old self

You don't have to please anybody.

You don't need to have an opinion on everything. If you think you can't say it in front of the person concerned, you should not say it behind his/her back.

Somebody out there loves your smile; never let it escape your lips.

Your rank and your designation will remain in high school. After that, no one will care.

You have nice legs. It's okay to show them off once in a while. ;)

Promises from boys can be broken, and their kisses don't always equate to love.

Men will come and go. Friends shouldn't. Friendship should be continually worked on, not something that you can forget when you are busy or in love.

Don't sell yourself short, or think lowly of yourself. You are a precious, pretty and wonderful daughter of God. If men can't see that, they are not worthy of your time or affection.

4 years

4 years has passed and still we continue to pray for a miracle. My son, don't let the lost of sight hinder you from having peace, love, happiness and faith in your heart.

Happy Visual Evoked Response test results anniversary, my young prince, and blessed be the name of the Lord!

Failing

"If I fail, I try again, and again, and again. If YOU fail, are you going to try again? The human spirit can handle much more than we realize. It matters HOW you are going to FINISH. Are you going to finish strong?"

- Nick Vujicic

Kids, Nick was born without hands and feet. He had bouts of depression growing up, even tried drowning himself in the bathtub. Yet, he overcame all insecurities and weaknesses and focused on his strengths and gifts. He turned out to be one of the world's greatest motivational speakers. Look him up and let me know if he inspires you too.

Love you both!