Showing posts with label Reflections. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reflections. Show all posts

Monday, June 7, 2021

June 7

Today's verse of the day is --

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you. I will remove your stony heart from your body and replace it with a living one,
Ezekiel 36:26 CEB

The prayer goes like this --


Reading the whole chapter, I feel like I am reminded that sometimes God allows us to be in the dark so that we know that He is the light. There are times when we pray so hard about something, only to claim victory over it for ourselves when we achieve what we pray for. We forget how we begged God for it in prayer, and it is only through God's grace that we are "victorious".

So never forget your prayers, please. Stay grateful for all of your blessings. Stay humble, stay kind. I love you.

P.S. don't forget our verse yesterday -- God gives you everything you need (not want) and more so that you can share your blessings. 😘

Wednesday, May 26, 2021

Devotional

Sharing this wonderful devotional from the Bible app that I read today regarding forgiveness..

Thursday, May 13, 2021

John 14

This is the chapter pala where Jesus describes the Holy Trinity. I never really fully understood it -- how three personas are one. Here is what Jesus said:
   • Don’t you believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words I have spoken to you I don’t speak on my own. The Father who dwells in me does his works.
   • The Companion, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I told you.

Okay, I still don't fully understand it. But it is comforting to hear Jesus talk about it. A priest once said that humans are not capable of understanding the complexity of God's works. Kaya nga hindi tayo god diba? The trinity remains once of those mysteries that as Catholics, we continue to have faith in even when we don't fully understand.

One more thing I like about this chapter are the promises that Jesus said:
   • My Father’s house has room to spare. If that weren’t the case, would I have told you that I’m going to prepare a place for you? O diba, wala kang atras, Jesus really wants to be with you in heaven.
   • I will do whatever you ask for in my name, so that the Father can be glorified in the Son. When you ask me for anything in my name, I will do it. Kaya pala we say "In Jesus' name" when we pray
   • I won’t leave you as orphans. I will come to you. Soon the world will no longer see me, but you will see me. Wait, this comes with a bilin -- and I find it true for me, too, for when I'm gone. Jesus (or me) remains in you because... Whoever loves me will keep my word. That means, you should remain obedient to what the Lord (or I) taught you. Only then can you say that I remain in you.
   • and finally.... You have heard me tell you, ‘I’m going away and returning to you.’ If you loved me, you would be happy that I am going to the Father, because the Father is greater than me.

I do hope you read this chapter for yourself. Let me know what key learnings you got from it.

Sunday, March 14, 2021

March 6, 2021

I took up Physical Therapy in college. I cried over failed exams; I beat myself up over a failed subject. I did all I can to make sure I pass the board exams on the first try (because we literally couldn't afford a second one had I failed). BUT, I never really practiced PT for more than 2 years because I already joined Accenture immediately after boards.

I know what (most of) you're thinking right now. Sayang ang binayad sa colllege. I feel that way sometimes  too, and think of what could have been if I pursued PT.

Today, I brought our kasambahay who doesn't recognize letters and numbers to the opthalmologist. The doctor struggled to get a pain score from her. I can hear the frustration in his voice. But I was able to help by showing her a visual scale, something I learned some 15+ years ago. It's a small thing. But I felt God is helping me realize that some times He puts us in situations where we don't understand why things are happening. We constantly ask the rationale, but like the cliché goes, it's all part of His big plan.



I never would've understood pain scale, or kept (mostly) calm when Darwin or any member of our family were in health crisis, had it not been for the knowledge I gained in college. All my mentors contributed to me being able to digest medical jargons, and thus helped me to help the people I love.

So takeaway is: if you're currently going through something difficult, it might not be a failed subject or upcoming boards, know that God is preparing you for something. It might be hard to understand right now, but that's what faith is -- when you trust even when you are having difficulties to understand why.

I pray for your joy and healing. 😘






Tuesday, July 15, 2014

“Is how you’re living today on track with how you want to see your life end?”

I want you to remember me as a loving mom. And I want to be able to provide for our family's needs.

I hope I make the right choices to arrive at the end that I envision for us. Remember it is not in the big decisions that you can alter your life, but in the everyday, small stuff.

Love you chipmunks.

Monday, February 24, 2014

Homily Jan 19, 2014

Many people believe that children should not be allowed in churches because they keep on playing, they are noisy, etc. In doing naughty things, we think of them as evil because they disrupt the solemnity of mass.

But, bear in mind that children are teachers: God also became a little child and Jesus always used children in His teachings about God's Kingdom.

Things to remember:
1. Children are gifts.
- what is the meaning of life in one word? GIFT.
- life is not junk, not garbage, but a gift that we need to take care of and value
- just as you remember the giver everytime you enjoy a gift, everytime you enjoy life, it makes you smile and think of God who gave that life to you

2. Children are faith-full
- "unless you become like children, you will not enter the Kingdom of Heaven"
- children have the fullness of faith

We must always demonstrate LIVED FAITH. Faith is never something just to be talked about; it must be demonstrated in the way we live everyday.

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Fwd: Kaye, God's Message For You Today, March 5, 2013


QUICK TO FORGIVE

 

Peter approached Jesus and asked him, "Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?" — Matthew 18:21

 

"Papa, I left my Gameboy inside the movie theater!" my son Jason said. It had been almost 10 minutes since we left the moviehouse. We ran back to the theater. The next batch of moviegoers were already filing in. I was anxious we wouldn't find his Gameboy anymore.

We rushed to the place where we had been seated but we only saw empty seats. My emotions were shifting from anxiety to anger when Jason said, "Papa, please forgive me for losing my video game."

I didn't know how to react. I just replied, "Don't worry, it's just a toy." Then, as if on queue, the maintenance man approached us and asked if we were looking for a video game. He told us to proceed to their office so we could claim it.

Jesus teaches us to forgive repeatedly because God is always willing to forgive us. His concept of forgiveness is very different from ours. We are choosy about who to forgive while He forgives all who return to Him. While we take longer to pardon, God forgives immediately. God's great love for us will always surpass our sins, whether big or small. Alvin Fabella (alvinfabella@yahoo.com)

 

Reflection: When you ask God for forgiveness, do you also remember to forgive those who have offended you?

 

Lord, when I'm tempted to withhold forgiveness, remind me that You forgive my sins even when I don't deserve it.

 

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More notes from this e-mail:

"Forgiveness is about making a choice to let go of the hurt that someone has done to us, and trying to restore the relationship that has been damaged. 

Forgiveness is rarely easy or simple. It is usually complicated and messy, particularly if issues have been left to fester and grow bigger over time. Most people need some time to cool down before the decision to forgive can be properly addressed, but this should never be an excuse to keep delaying a decision, as the longer it takes to forgive, the more difficult it can become."


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May you bear no angst in your heart and be quick to forgive, especially when it involves your siblings. Love you both!

Monday, March 4, 2013

Fwd: Life Begins at 40 - Day 5 - Seeing Life from God's View

Forwarding this message from a series of spiritual e-mails I subscribed to. I now have a deeper understanding of dad's bout with GBS a few month's back. I understand now that it had been a test of faith and strength, and I'm glad that God has helped us get through with it.

May you never fail your tests in life. Be strong bubbas!

Your mum



Begin forwarded message:

From: LB at 40 - Feast Binan <feastbinancm@yahoo.com>
Date: February 21, 2013, 5:59:20 AM GMT+08:00
Subject: Life Begins at 40 - Day 5 - Seeing Life from God's View
Reply-To: LB at 40 - Feast Binan <feastbinancm@yahoo.com>

Life Begins at 40 - Day 5 - Seeing Life from God's View

The way you see your life shapes your life. How you define life ...

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Day 5 - Seeing Life from God's View

 

What is your life?
James 4:14b (NIV)

 

We don't see things as they are, 
we see them as we are. 
Anais Nin

The way you see your life shapes your life.

How you define life determines your destiny. Your perspective will influence how you invest your time, spend your money, use your talents, and value your relationships.

One of the best ways to understand other people is to ask them, "How do you see your life?"
You will discover that there are as many different answers to that question as there are people.

I've been told life is a circus, a minefield, a roller coaster, a puzzle, a symphony, a journey, and a dance. People have said, "Life is a carousel: Sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down, and sometimes you just go round and round" or "life is a ten-speed bicycle with gears we never use" or "life is a game of cards: You have to play the hand you are dealt."

If I asked how you picture life, what image would come to your mind? That image is yourlife metaphor. It's the view of life that you hold, consciously or unconsciously, in your mind. It's your description of how life works and what you expect from it. People often express their life metaphors through clothes, jewelry, cars, hairstyles, bumper stickers, even tattoos.

Your unspoken life metaphor influences your life more than you realize. It determines your expectations, your values, your relationships, your goals, and your priorities. For instance, if you think life is a party, your primary value in life will be having fun. If you see life as a race, you will value speed and will probably be in a hurry much of the time. If you view life as a marathon, you will value endurance. If you see life as a battle or a game, winning will be very important to you.

What is your view of life? You may be basing your life on a faulty life metaphor. To fulfill the purposes God made you for, you will have to challenge conventional wisdom and replace it with the biblical metaphors of life. The Bible says, "Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God.'

The Bible offers three metaphors that teach us God's view of life: Life is a test, life is a trust, and life is a temporary assignment. These ideas are the foundation of purpose-driven living. We will look at the first two in this chapter and the third one in the next.

Life on earth is a Test. This life metaphor is seen in stories throughout the Bible. God continually tests people's character, faith, obedience, love, integrity, and loyalty. Words like trials, temptations, refining, and testing occur more than 200 times in the Bible. God tested Abraham by asking him to offer his son Isaac. God tested Jacob when he had to work extra years to earn Rachel as his wife.

Adam and Eve failed their test in the Garden of Eden, and David failed his tests from God on several occasions. But the Bible also gives us many examples of people who passed a great test, such as Joseph, Ruth, Esther, and Daniel.

Character is both developed and revealed by tests, and all of life is a test. You are always being tested. God constantly watches your response to people, problems, success, conflict, illness, disappointment, and even the weather! He even watches the simplest actions such as when you open a door for others, when you pick up a piece of trash, or when you're polite toward a clerk or waitress.

We don't know all the tests God will give you, but we can predict some of them, based on the
Bible.

You will be tested by major changes, delayed promises, impossible problems, unanswered prayers, undeserved criticism, and even senseless tragedies. In my own life I have noticed that God tests my faith through problems, tests my hope by how I handle possessions, and tests my love through people.

A very important test is how you act when you can't feel God's presence in your life.
Sometimes God intentionally draws back, and we don't sense his closeness. A king named Hezekiah experienced this test. The Bible says, "God withdrew from Hezekiah in order to test him and to see what was really in his heart." Hezekiah had enjoyed a close fellowship with God, but at a crucial point in his life God left him alone to test his character, to reveal a weakness, and to prepare him for more responsibility.

When you understand that life is a test, you realize that nothing is insignificant in your life. Even the smallest incident has significance for your character development. Every day is an important day, and every second is a growth opportunity to deepen your character, to demonstrate love, or to depend on God. Some tests seem overwhelming, while others you don't even notice. But all of them have eternal implications.

Character is both developed 
and revealed by tests, 
and all of life is a test.

The good news is that God wants you to pass the tests of life, so he never allows the tests you
face to be greater than the grace he gives you to handle them. The Bible says, "God keeps his 
promise, and he will not allow you to be tested beyond your power to remain firm; at the time you 
are put to the test, he will give you the strength to endure it, and so provide you with a way out."

Every time you pass a test, God notices and makes plans to reward you in eternity. James says,
`Blessed are those who endure when they are tested. When they pass the test, they will receive the 
crown of life that God has promised to those who love him."

Life on earth is a Trust. This is the second biblical metaphor of life. Our time on earth and our energy, intelligence, opportunities, relationships, and resources are all gifts from God that he has entrusted to our care and management. We are stewards of whatever God gives us. This concept of stewardship begins with the recognition that God is the owner of everything and everyone on earth. The Bible says, "The world and all that is in it belong to the LORD; the earth and all who live on it are his."

We never really own anything during our brief stay on earth. God just loans the earth to us while we're here. It was God's property before you arrived, and God will loan it to someone else after you die. You just get to enjoy it for a while.

When God created Adam and Eve, he entrusted the care of his creation to them and appointed them trustees of his property. The Bible says, "[God] blessed them, and said, `Have many children, so that your descendants will live all over the earth and bring it under their control. I am putting you in charge."'

The first job God gave humans was to manage and take care of God's "stuff" on earth. This role has never been rescinded. It is a part of our purpose today. Everything we enjoy is to be treated as a trust that God has placed in our hands. The Bible says, "What do you have that God hasn't given you? And if all you have is from God, why boast as though you have accomplished 
something on your own?"'

Years ago, a couple let my wife and me use their beautiful, beach-front home in Hawaii for a vacation. It was an experience we could never have afforded, and we enjoyed it immensely. We were told, "Use it just like it's yours," so we did! We swam in the pool, ate the food in the refrigerator, used the bath towels and dishes, and even jumped on the beds in fun! But we knew all along that it wasn't really ours, so we took special care of everything. We enjoyed the benefits of using the home without owning it.

Our culture says, "If you don't own it, you won't take care of it." But Christians live by a higher standard: "Because God owns it, I must take the best care of it that I can." The Bible says, "Those who are trusted with something valuable must show they are worthy of that trust.'

Jesus often referred to life as a trust and told many stories to illustrate this responsibility toward God.
In the story of the talents, a businessman entrusts his wealth to the care of his servants while he's away. When he returns, he evaluates each servant's responsibility and rewards them accordingly.
The owner says, "Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; 
I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness."

At the end of your life on earth you will be evaluated and rewarded according to how well you handled what God entrusted to you. That means everything you do, even simple daily chores, has eternal implications. If you treat everything as a trust, God promises three rewards in eternity.

First, you will be given God's affirmation: He will say, "Good job!Well done!" Next, you will receive a promotion and be given greater responsibility in eternity: "I will put you in charge of many things." Then you will be honored with a celebration: "Come and share your Master's happiness."

The more God gives you, 
the more responsible he 
expects you to be.

Most people fail to realize that money is both a test and a trust from God. God uses finances to teach us to trust him, and for many people, money is the greatest test of all. God watches how we use money to test how trustworthy we are. The Bible says, "If you are untrustworthy about worldly wealth, who will trust you with the true riches of heaven?"

This is a very important truth. God says there is a direct relationship between how I use my money and the quality of my spiritual life. How I manage my money ("worldly wealth") determines how much God can trust me with spiritual blessings ("true riches"). Let me ask you: Is the way you manage your money preventing God from doing more in your life? Can you be trusted with spiritual riches?

Jesus said, "From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the 
one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.'Life is a test and a trust, and
the more God gives you, the more responsible he expects you to be.
 

DAY FIVE 
THINKING ABOUT MY PURPOSE 
 

Point to Ponder: Life is a test and a trust.

Verse to Remember: "Unless you are faithful in small matters, you won't be faithful in large ones." Luke I6:l0a (NLT)

Question to Consider: What has happened to me recently that I now realize was a test from God? What are the greatest matters God has entrusted to me?

 

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Friday, March 1, 2013

The Big Difference

 

"Remember that you received what was good during your lifetime while Lazarus likewise received what was bad; but now he is comforted here, whereas you are tormented." – Luke 16:25

 

A man went to the slums riding a sleek, lowered-chassis, latest model Mercedes Benz. One boy, who recognized him, boldly asked, "Can you take me for a ride in your car?"

Perfect! This was just the situation the man had been waiting for to top his bragging expedition. Before he could even answer, the boy ran away then returned with his polio-stricken brother on his back. They both quickly hopped in.

"Where did this car come from?" the boy wondered. "I have an extremely wealthy employer and he bought this car for me," the man replied.

"Cool!" the boy said. He then closed his eyes, and was silent in prayer for a minute. When the boy opened his eyes, the man asked, "Did you pray that you may become like me and have a nice car like this?"

"No," said the boy, "I prayed that I be like your boss, so I could give this kind of car to my brother."

You don't have to wonder who among the two enjoys the heaven of sleeping soundly at night, relishing simple joys, savoring the warm embraces of love.

The rich man in the Gospel is in hell not because he is rich but because he didn't love. Jon Escoto (faithatworkjon@gmail.com)

 

Reflection: Do you want a dose of heaven now? Love the Lazarus that God puts in your path today.

 

Lord, let me recognize the Lazarus You are putting in my path today.

 

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REFLECTION QUESTIONS: What practices and traditions of charity have you been doing as part of your Lenten observance? What more can you do, given your blessings? Who are the needy persons whom the Lord calls you to minister to?

 

Grant me a compassionate heart, Lord, that I may always respond to the needy around me.

 

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[from mommy] Remember, Kids, that in Luke 12:48, it says that to whom much is given, much is expected. May you have a generous heart.  I love you both!

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Mamma Mia

She answered him, "Command that these two sons of mine sit, one at your right and the other at your left, in your kingdom." – Matthew 20:20-21

 

According to a research by Prof. G. Turner, intelligent men owe their brains to their mothers. Genes associated with intelligence are found on the X chromosome, the one which men inherit from their mothers. Thus, the gene, whether an intelligent one or not, can be inherited by the son from her, determining his basic intelligence, character and looks. The professor concludes that if a man wants smart sons, his best bet is to marry a smart woman.

The mother of James and John may seem to be a pushy or ambitious woman by asking Jesus to give her sons prestigious positions, but she must have done something right in producing two "sons of thunder," who are known in history as two of the 12 Apostles and one of the four Gospel writers.

To all mothers out there (including dads, too), may your influence in your children's lives be one that will leave a positive impact. May our children be the living testimony of the kind of parent we are. Ronna Ledesma (ronna_ledesma@yahoo.com.ph)

 

Reflection: The future destiny of a child is always the work of the mother. (Napoleon Bonaparte)

 

Lord, when You behold my children, may I hear from Your lips, "Well done, my faithful servant!" 

[mommy: Ayos na prayer no? My thoughts exactly! I know you will make me proud in front of the Lord]

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Be Forgiving

Reflection: Are you harboring ill feelings at the moment? Lift them up to God.
To love like You, to be forgiving like You, this I pray today, O God. Amen.
  
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I know I am guilty of being quick to express my anger, most of the time without regard for whatever comes out of my mouth. Please pray for me. Love you both.

Faith

REFLECTION QUESTIONS: How comfortable, trusting and at home are you with God as the "Unseen Father"? What are your most cherished experiences of His goodness? Are you a doer in faith, or are you one who waits in faith?

Increase my faith, Lord, not only as I wait, but as I follow You in moments of darkness.

God and Our Past

We are products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of it. God's purpose is not limited by your past. He turned a murderer named Moses into a leader and a coward named Gideon into a courageous hero, and he can do amazing things with the rest of your life, too. God specializes in giving people a fresh start. The Bible says, "What happiness for those whose guilt has been forgiven! ... What relief for those who have confessed their sins and God has cleared their record."

Confess


Reflection: Have you sinned? Failed? Made mistakes? Confess. Get back up. Move on. His love is greater.
Lord, thank You for Your mercy and forgiveness. Thank You for Your love that never ends.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Anger Management

Admittedly, I need to work on managing my emotions, especially anger. Please forgive me when I fail to count to 10.

Love, your mum.

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ANGER MANAGEMENT
Take no revenge and cherish no grudge against your fellow countrymen. – Leviticus 19:18                                        
Phinehas Gage was a capable and efficient railroad construction foreman. But in 1848, he had a freak accident where a rod pierced through his skull above his left eye. His recovery was miraculous but the damage to the front lobe of his brain caused Gage to be angry, short-tempered and unsteady.
Many point to his case in illustrating the role that our frontal lobe plays in controlling our anger. Scientists say that this part balances the amygdala, the portion of our brain dealing with our emotions that goes crazy when we're angry. This whole balancing act can take as little as two seconds to control our anger. That's why there's great wisdom in counting to 10 before reacting when we're infuriated.
God has equipped our bodies with systems to control our emotions. We don't need to be a slave to our feelings; instead, we can be their master. But more than the physiological mechanisms He has built into us, God also gives us His power to bear the fruits of patience and temperance.
So the next time you feel like bursting with rage, remember: God has already given you what you need to control your anger. Then start counting to 10. Rissa Singson-Kawpeng (justbreatherissa@gmail.com)
Reflection: For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
Jesus, teach me to master my emotions. Amen. Blessed John of Fiesole, pray for us.

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Love and fear

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

Thoughts on Today's Verse...

There are many kinds of fear. Some of these are legitimate. Others are imagined. Still others are irrational. Thankfully, as Christians, we don't have to be afraid of the one crucial event in our life -- judgment. God's love saves us, empowers us, blesses us, works in us, and touches others through us. Most of all, having experienced this love, we can cast fear out of our hearts because we know where we stand with God. He is our loving Father who longs to bring us home!

My Prayer...

Holy, majestic, and awesome God, you are mighty in your strength. You are holy beyond comparison. You are righteous and fair in your dealings with your people. Most of all, dear Father, I thank you because you do not deal with me as my sins deserve. No, O God, you deal with me graciously, blessing me with your redeeming and transforming grace. Your love gives me confidence to live for you and to await the day I stand before you. Until that day I offer you my thanks and praise in Jesus' holy name I pray. Amen.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Reflection, February 10, 2013


Reflection: When the opportunities to serve the Lord present themselves, will you have an excuse or are you ready to be used?
Lord, I make myself available to You. Use me as You please. Bless me with the skills and gifts I will need and empower me with Your Spirit. Amen.

Reflection, February 9, 2013


Reflection: In every circumstance, we can choose to dwell on the problem or focus on the blessing.
Father God, forgive me when I choose to see the problems and wallow in self-pity, thinking that I am a victim. Help me see what You see. Help me focus on the blessings, even in the most trying situations, and glorify You.

Friday, February 8, 2013

Reflection for Work


Reflection: Are you suffering from burnout? Learn to delegate.

Lord, help me to realize that I can't possibly do everything with my own power. Grant me the grace to share the work with others.

Reflection for today

REFLECTION QUESTIONS: What circumstances in life make you prefer to have persons around you? Why? Who are the particular persons you wish to be with you when these circumstances arise?

 ****I hope I can be with you always. I treasure every moment that we play together, laugh together, or basically just sitting together. Love you both sweethearts~mom

Lord Jesus, help me to always remember that in unity, there's strength.